I get more booking requests than I can take. Most of the ones I decline aren't declined because of the kink — they're declined because of how they were sent. Here's how to be the request I say yes to.
Step 1: Use the form, not the DMs
Every serious booking goes through the booking form. Twitter DMs, Instagram, one-line emails — those get a link back to the form at best. The form exists because it asks the questions I need answered before I'll consider you, and it keeps your details out of a social media inbox.
Step 2: Write like an adult
Tell me who you are, what you're into, what you've done before, your limits, and what you want out of the session. "Nothing" and "no limits" are not answers — they tell me you haven't thought about it. The more descriptive you are, the more options I have, and the less likely I am to get bored of you. "I want a 60-minute base tier session focused on boot worship and OTK spanking, I've never been to a pro Domme, I'm nervous about the humiliation side" is the bare minimum — acceptable, barely. A good one tells me what draws you to boots, how hard you've been spanked before, what humiliation you've fantasized about and what would ruin it, whether you want to be pushed or eased in, and anything about your body or head I should know. Give me paragraphs. Better still, attach or link your favourite video of mine, or an example clip of what you're picturing — it tells me more than a page of text. "hey mistress u free" is a blocked one.
Step 3: The deposit
The deposit is $50 and it's how you get my attention — a form without one goes to the bottom of the pile. But I don't accept it until we've agreed on a date and time in my reply. If we can't land on one, it's your job to cancel the deposit; I won't hold money for a session that doesn't exist. Once the date is set, the deposit is locked in and comes off your session rate. No-shows lose it and don't get a second chance.
Step 4: The rest of the fee
Cash, handed to me when I greet you. If you're paying in a currency other than Canadian dollars, it's dollar for dollar — $300 CAD is $300 USD is $300 of whatever you brought. I don't do exchange rates.
ID
I don't ask for it. The only exception is a filming session where the video is going to be shared — then it's required, and we'll have agreed on that long before you arrive.
Incall vs outcall
Incalls are at my Kitchener dungeon or my hosting space on tour (Niagara sessions are at Niagara Social Engagement). The location arrives within 8 hours of your appointment. Outcalls are +$100 depending on distance from wherever I am that day, and they can be a hotel or your home — the only rules are that the space is private and anyone who'll be there is on the booking form.
Online sessions
Same form, online tab. Texting, video, ignore sessions and recurring packages. Payment is upfront; there's no deposit because the whole thing is prepaid.
Things that get you ignored
Haggling. Asking for the location before the deposit. Sending a photo of your dick. Booking under 24 hours out and being surprised by the same-day surcharge. Asking whether I "really" do something that's on the page — yes, I really do.
What doesn't get you ignored: asking about a fetish that isn't on my services list. I haven't listed every kink that's ever existed. Ask properly and you'll get a straight answer.
That's it. Fill out the form properly and you'll hear back.
— Mistress Mercy Rage · Kitchener · touring Canada